13 years ago
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
Friday, September 2, 2011
Love fades......
I find it so hard to blog about happy stuffs going on between us. Things started to change when we from BGR to Marriage Life to Parenthoods to Own a Home. Things gone bad to worst.
We can communicate. He has no patience to listen & I have no patience to tok. Even repeated my words, just cant get into his mind.
If cant give a luxury life to ur wifey, at least give a comfy one.
If cant help out in housechores, at least don make a mess.
If can't help in making a mess, den dont give stupid silly remarks.
If reluctant to take care of baby, den dont expect bb to call u Daddy.
Aint the above simple words?
When u treat one right, u will receive the same treating.
When u start treating me like shit, I will make sure i give u back double!
U failed to learn your lesson. If this is you, and i cant accept the way you are, did you see things are getting worst? No! You wont realise anything!
Am I pushing u away or vice versa? If you really prefer me treating u invisible, i will do it.
I bet even i leave you, u also wont come to realise you are in the wrong. Or maybe u wont even know i have left...
We can communicate. He has no patience to listen & I have no patience to tok. Even repeated my words, just cant get into his mind.
If cant give a luxury life to ur wifey, at least give a comfy one.
If cant help out in housechores, at least don make a mess.
If can't help in making a mess, den dont give stupid silly remarks.
If reluctant to take care of baby, den dont expect bb to call u Daddy.
Aint the above simple words?
When u treat one right, u will receive the same treating.
When u start treating me like shit, I will make sure i give u back double!
U failed to learn your lesson. If this is you, and i cant accept the way you are, did you see things are getting worst? No! You wont realise anything!
Am I pushing u away or vice versa? If you really prefer me treating u invisible, i will do it.
I bet even i leave you, u also wont come to realise you are in the wrong. Or maybe u wont even know i have left...
Sunday, June 19, 2011
3rd ROM Anniversary
Happy 3rd ROM anniversary, my dear Hubby.
We just went for lunch with our little one @ Lao Beijing.
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Mian Xian is Gd
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My fave!
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We going to move in to our home soon. 22 more days! Tgt we'll make a happy family. Love the big n little guys!
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Lastly, Happy 1st Father's Day to Hubby!
Mummy Rachel
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We just went for lunch with our little one @ Lao Beijing.
Mian Xian is Gd
My fave!
We going to move in to our home soon. 22 more days! Tgt we'll make a happy family. Love the big n little guys!
Lastly, Happy 1st Father's Day to Hubby!
Mummy Rachel
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Tuesday, May 24, 2011
Keys to our Love Nest
Daddy, Mummy & Baby moving into our love nest soon!
Baby Skyler gonna have his own room. His play room. Air-con Room. *grinz*
MummyRach looking forward to use her BIG BIG Refrigerator. Ho Ho Ho. Okie, to me its big.
Mummy Rach also look forward to watch tv using her 40' LED Tv. Okie, to me is also big big.
Lastly, MummyRach feels happy she gonna sleep in a air-con room at night soon......*hehehe*
Since young, I lived in a 3 room flat. Used to slping in a non air-con room. =)
Hope Daddy will share housechore with me. =) He has to!
Wednesday, February 16, 2011
I'm back!
Still been a long long time since my last blog.
and Here, I'm back!
Parenthood aint easy. Its super tiring!
Anyway, Hubby & I going HongKong in 18days time!
Yaahoo~~
Its a country I always wanted to go. My mum is taking care of my baby boy. So we can only go for a short short trip. 4days 3nites.
Will back to update with photos when im back from HK trip.
and Here, I'm back!
Parenthood aint easy. Its super tiring!
Anyway, Hubby & I going HongKong in 18days time!
Yaahoo~~
Its a country I always wanted to go. My mum is taking care of my baby boy. So we can only go for a short short trip. 4days 3nites.
Will back to update with photos when im back from HK trip.
Tuesday, December 28, 2010
When love become family
Everything changed when the status changes.
When love become ur family....things changed....
I no longer accept who u are. U no longer give me a Fairytale life. I shouldnt have pinned high hope on u? We are not here talking abt "betraying". Things breaking up not only betraying. Even simple things that keep on rolling over, just like snow became a big snowman. Things gone uncontrollable. I no longer jus wan to hear "Ok, sorry!" I'm waiting for u to change but u didnt. When my temper got nasty, u failed to understand why... I'm left with zero patience towards u.
We both failed to work thing out. I'm expecting high/much from u. Don't be just like other guys, quarrel, says I'm sorry n that's it. Don't be like a kid to me, when mummy ask u to do work den u will do. Please! Behaved like a adult! U are father of one! Take initiative!
How bad can it be when love changes to family? Yes! It's definitely super bad for us, between us. ESP when u are kind of person don't listen to ur family. How the way u treat ur parents, the way u turn deaf on ur parents comments. I'm becoming one of them. U turned deaf when I speak to u on our problems. That's how we have becoming to.
Living together is a great test for us ESP now we have a kid. Can we overcome those problems? I have no confidence. Our nest is gonna to be ready soon. Now things are already bad enough, I really can't imagine when we moved in to our own hse.
As a father, I just like many other mummies, find u not doing enough. U simply end things with "I don't know how to do.." too many simple chores u can't n u don't know how to do. I'm also not like other women, remaining cool n calm n do everything by myself quietly. I will jus shout out loud~
You wont realize n come to awake when u are saying to us, "I don't know how to do..." it is so much irritating n showing off how useless u are being a man. All I expect u to do, share the hse chore load, share the taking care of BB load, stop saying I don't know n get ur ass to learn. Stay absolute fresh n clean when u handling BB. Issit too much to ask from u?
If u can do those I stated well, I bet we can lead a simple peaceful life.....
越看似简单,越是难做到。。。
When love become ur family....things changed....
I no longer accept who u are. U no longer give me a Fairytale life. I shouldnt have pinned high hope on u? We are not here talking abt "betraying". Things breaking up not only betraying. Even simple things that keep on rolling over, just like snow became a big snowman. Things gone uncontrollable. I no longer jus wan to hear "Ok, sorry!" I'm waiting for u to change but u didnt. When my temper got nasty, u failed to understand why... I'm left with zero patience towards u.
We both failed to work thing out. I'm expecting high/much from u. Don't be just like other guys, quarrel, says I'm sorry n that's it. Don't be like a kid to me, when mummy ask u to do work den u will do. Please! Behaved like a adult! U are father of one! Take initiative!
How bad can it be when love changes to family? Yes! It's definitely super bad for us, between us. ESP when u are kind of person don't listen to ur family. How the way u treat ur parents, the way u turn deaf on ur parents comments. I'm becoming one of them. U turned deaf when I speak to u on our problems. That's how we have becoming to.
Living together is a great test for us ESP now we have a kid. Can we overcome those problems? I have no confidence. Our nest is gonna to be ready soon. Now things are already bad enough, I really can't imagine when we moved in to our own hse.
As a father, I just like many other mummies, find u not doing enough. U simply end things with "I don't know how to do.." too many simple chores u can't n u don't know how to do. I'm also not like other women, remaining cool n calm n do everything by myself quietly. I will jus shout out loud~
You wont realize n come to awake when u are saying to us, "I don't know how to do..." it is so much irritating n showing off how useless u are being a man. All I expect u to do, share the hse chore load, share the taking care of BB load, stop saying I don't know n get ur ass to learn. Stay absolute fresh n clean when u handling BB. Issit too much to ask from u?
If u can do those I stated well, I bet we can lead a simple peaceful life.....
越看似简单,越是难做到。。。
Thursday, November 4, 2010
Family outing!
We brought Skyler for a swim~ He loves it! We tried to bring Skyler out weekly. If not he will be super bored staying at home facing four walls. Daddy is doing more compare to last time. We both love our baby Skyler. When we move in to our nest, it will be officially "complete" family. *counting down*...............
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