3rd ROM Anniversary

Happy 3rd ROM anniversary, my dear Hubby.

We just went for lunch with our little one @ Lao Beijing.












Mian Xian is Gd



My fave!





We going to move in to our home soon. 22 more days! Tgt we'll make a happy family. Love the big n little guys!






Lastly, Happy 1st Father's Day to Hubby!

Mummy Rachel

- Posted using BlogPress from MummyRach iPhone

Keys to our Love Nest

Yea! We gotten our keys. Finally~ We have waited for more than 3 years.
Daddy, Mummy & Baby moving into our love nest soon!

Baby Skyler gonna have his own room. His play room. Air-con Room. *grinz*

MummyRach looking forward to use her BIG BIG Refrigerator. Ho Ho Ho. Okie, to me its big.
Mummy Rach also look forward to watch tv using her 40' LED Tv. Okie, to me is also big big.
Lastly, MummyRach feels happy she gonna sleep in a air-con room at night soon......*hehehe*

Since young, I lived in a 3 room flat. Used to slping in a non air-con room. =)

Hope Daddy will share housechore with me. =) He has to!

I'm back!

Still been a long long time since my last blog.
and Here, I'm back!

Parenthood aint easy. Its super tiring!
Anyway, Hubby & I going HongKong in 18days time!
Yaahoo~~

Its a country I always wanted to go. My mum is taking care of my baby boy. So we can only go for a short short trip. 4days 3nites.

Will back to update with photos when im back from HK trip.

When love become family

Everything changed when the status changes.

When love become ur family....things changed....

I no longer accept who u are. U no longer give me a Fairytale life. I shouldnt have pinned high hope on u? We are not here talking abt "betraying". Things breaking up not only betraying. Even simple things that keep on rolling over, just like snow became a big snowman. Things gone uncontrollable. I no longer jus wan to hear "Ok, sorry!" I'm waiting for u to change but u didnt. When my temper got nasty, u failed to understand why... I'm left with zero patience towards u.

We both failed to work thing out. I'm expecting high/much from u. Don't be just like other guys, quarrel, says I'm sorry n that's it. Don't be like a kid to me, when mummy ask u to do work den u will do. Please! Behaved like a adult! U are father of one! Take initiative!

How bad can it be when love changes to family? Yes! It's definitely super bad for us, between us. ESP when u are kind of person don't listen to ur family. How the way u treat ur parents, the way u turn deaf on ur parents comments. I'm becoming one of them. U turned deaf when I speak to u on our problems. That's how we have becoming to.

Living together is a great test for us ESP now we have a kid. Can we overcome those problems? I have no confidence. Our nest is gonna to be ready soon. Now things are already bad enough, I really can't imagine when we moved in to our own hse.

As a father, I just like many other mummies, find u not doing enough. U simply end things with "I don't know how to do.." too many simple chores u can't n u don't know how to do. I'm also not like other women, remaining cool n calm n do everything by myself quietly. I will jus shout out loud~

You wont realize n come to awake when u are saying to us, "I don't know how to do..." it is so much irritating n showing off how useless u are being a man. All I expect u to do, share the hse chore load, share the taking care of BB load, stop saying I don't know n get ur ass to learn. Stay absolute fresh n clean when u handling BB. Issit too much to ask from u?

If u can do those I stated well, I bet we can lead a simple peaceful life.....

越看似简单，越是难做到。。。

Family outing!

We brought Skyler for a swim~ He loves it! We tried to bring Skyler out weekly. If not he will be super bored staying at home facing four walls. Daddy is doing more compare to last time. We both love our baby Skyler. When we move in to our nest, it will be officially "complete" family. *counting down*...............

Now Daddy loves carrying Skyler as his neck is quite stable now.

Daddy even help out in carrying Skyler using a carrier! *happy*

~ Happy Family ~

Our adorable baby *buay pai sei*

Our new lifestyle...

Now is only Baby BAby BABY!
Don't have any couple life / husband & wife life.
So long din go for movies....shopping also bring baby along, which hubby don't seems to enjoy bring Skyler out, he find it very troublesome. In terms of transport & have to prepare & carry lots of things. A heavy diaper bag & stroller. Moreover, every three hrs Skyler has to drink milk. We have to find nursing room or a place to settle for milk time. (But I still pretty much enjoy bring Skyler with us)

Conflicts can nvr be less!
Hubby does help out some times.....
- He will sterilised milk bottle.
- If I'm carry / feed baby, he will help to prepare or get whatever I need him to

BUT!!!
He don't help baby to bath or change diaper!
He don't cut the nails for Skyler!
He sometimes will try to siam to feed Skyler!
He claimed that he scared! Coz Skyler has no head control yet....
So we shall see in the future if he help out for those he doesnt do it... =)

Family shopping trip

Hubby n I bring Skyler to Causeway Point. Today is the first time we three went shopping tgt without my mum tag along. Luckily we still can cope well. (Maybe not for Hubby) kekez. He said no more next time. But I enjoyed very much. Hehe.

We had a theme color of clothing for today's outing. It's Yellow! One of my fav color. Since we can't have the same clothes but at least same color.

The place I most wanted to bring Skyler to is Zoo!! I love zoo. Hubby n I went there almost every yr. It's also the place hubby proposed to me. Heee. I guess have to at least Skyler turns one yr old.

I will wait...