Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Our new lifestyle...

Now is only Baby BAby BABY!
Don't have any couple life / husband & wife life.
So long din go for movies....shopping also bring baby along, which hubby don't seems to enjoy bring Skyler out, he find it very troublesome. In terms of transport & have to prepare & carry lots of things. A heavy diaper bag & stroller. Moreover, every three hrs Skyler has to drink milk. We have to find nursing room or a place to settle for milk time. (But I still pretty much enjoy bring Skyler with us)

Conflicts can nvr be less!
Hubby does help out some times.....
- He will sterilised milk bottle.
- If I'm carry / feed baby, he will help to prepare or get whatever I need him to

BUT!!!
He don't help baby to bath or change diaper!
He don't cut the nails for Skyler!
He sometimes will try to siam to feed Skyler!
He claimed that he scared! Coz Skyler has no head control yet....
So we shall see in the future if he help out for those he doesnt do it... =)

Saturday, September 11, 2010

Family shopping trip


Hubby n I bring Skyler to Causeway Point. Today is the first time we three went shopping tgt without my mum tag along. Luckily we still can cope well. (Maybe not for Hubby) kekez. He said no more next time. But I enjoyed very much. Hehe.

We had a theme color of clothing for today's outing. It's Yellow! One of my fav color. Since we can't have the same clothes but at least same color.

The place I most wanted to bring Skyler to is Zoo!! I love zoo. Hubby n I went there almost every yr. It's also the place hubby proposed to me. Heee. I guess have to at least Skyler turns one yr old.

I will wait...

Friday, August 20, 2010

Parenthood


Now being a parent, no longer a lover, not jus husband n wife, with greater responsibilities.

More conflicts arise. I lose my cool at times. Feeling stressful and thinking he is not in any help. Feel he did not love me n baby.

Knowing I've to stand at his shoes, he got his own stress, feeling tired after work n classes.

Afterall, I know and also I hope I'm jus thinking too much, being over-sensitive. Hoping he is willingly to sacrifice all his time for this family, for me and baby. He will be a great dad n husband. We both have to learn tgt. Grow tgt. Build a healthy family for Skyler.

Next focus will be to have a comfortable nest for us. (by next yr)

Friday, July 30, 2010

Parenthood

Hubby & I are officially a Daddy & Mummy now~
Our precious name is Skyler Kok. Born on the 19th July 2010 @ Mount Alvernia Hospi.

I appreciated Hubby was there with me during labour.
He was very encouraging during my labour pain.
It was a pretty touching moment.
He witnessed his son, baby Skyler arrival.

After labour, I nearly entered a danger stage. Hubby worried.
Luckily, everything turn out fine for me.
He told me the sweetest thing, he doesn't want to try a 2nd one (child) as he don't want to see me so xin ku.

I know he is a great husband & will be a wonderful daddy.
Thou, I have phobia for going thru pregnancy & labour, if I manage to overcome it, I would still like to try to give my Hubby a daughter (he hope for), Skyler a little sister.

**2 yrs later den discuss this again~ whahahaha

Hubby, lets us together enjoy & learn to be a parent of baby Skyler~
I love you, Hubby.

Friday, July 2, 2010

Karate Kids

Watched Karate Kid by Jaden Smith & Jackie Chan

Hubby & I enjoyed the movie.
Reached home, hubby help me to massage my painful & swelling feet when i soak it in warm water.

Thanks Hubby.

Saturday, June 19, 2010

Celebrate 2nd ROM anniversary cum 1st wedding anniversary

On this day, we celebrated our 2nd ROM anniversary cum our 1st wedding anniversary which falls on the 22nd Jun. =)


Buffet Lunch @ Kiseki

I cant have raw salmon due to pregnancy~ Himself enjoying alone~ sobz
I love cheese tofu~
Strawberry is his, Chocolate is mine...the mango yuckz
Happy anniversary to hubby (BB's Daddy) Next yr our precious will join in our celebration~
Love you~

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

3 more days...

3 more days to go....Its our 2nd ROM anniversary!

So upset that my hubby forgot abt this date. Sob~ He only remember 19th Jun is both our mother's bday~ I keep asking him..."and then? what else?...."
He couldnt recall. *faint*

6 more days to go...Its our 1st wedding anniversary!
Okie, it diff by 3 days only~

These 2 anniversary, our gift of love is still inside my stomach. Kekekez.
Our little precious will join us next yr~
This yr he will just stay inside mummy's tummy k? Bring you along to eat gd food *yummy*
Most prob is Japanese food.

Will update after our celebration~