Tuesday, December 28, 2010

When love become family

Everything changed when the status changes.

When love become ur family....things changed....

I no longer accept who u are. U no longer give me a Fairytale life. I shouldnt have pinned high hope on u? We are not here talking abt "betraying". Things breaking up not only betraying. Even simple things that keep on rolling over, just like snow became a big snowman. Things gone uncontrollable. I no longer jus wan to hear "Ok, sorry!" I'm waiting for u to change but u didnt. When my temper got nasty, u failed to understand why... I'm left with zero patience towards u.

We both failed to work thing out. I'm expecting high/much from u. Don't be just like other guys, quarrel, says I'm sorry n that's it. Don't be like a kid to me, when mummy ask u to do work den u will do. Please! Behaved like a adult! U are father of one! Take initiative!

How bad can it be when love changes to family? Yes! It's definitely super bad for us, between us. ESP when u are kind of person don't listen to ur family. How the way u treat ur parents, the way u turn deaf on ur parents comments. I'm becoming one of them. U turned deaf when I speak to u on our problems. That's how we have becoming to.

Living together is a great test for us ESP now we have a kid. Can we overcome those problems? I have no confidence. Our nest is gonna to be ready soon. Now things are already bad enough, I really can't imagine when we moved in to our own hse.

As a father, I just like many other mummies, find u not doing enough. U simply end things with "I don't know how to do.." too many simple chores u can't n u don't know how to do. I'm also not like other women, remaining cool n calm n do everything by myself quietly. I will jus shout out loud~

You wont realize n come to awake when u are saying to us, "I don't know how to do..." it is so much irritating n showing off how useless u are being a man. All I expect u to do, share the hse chore load, share the taking care of BB load, stop saying I don't know n get ur ass to learn. Stay absolute fresh n clean when u handling BB. Issit too much to ask from u?

If u can do those I stated well, I bet we can lead a simple peaceful life.....

越看似简单,越是难做到。。。